The Reason why I Believe Sam's baby dying was more emotional than Jake dying

First off I would like to say i do not like it when kids die on soaps.....so i get emotional and upset when it happens. Like others this has not touch me at all, due to the fact that it was rushed, that's the first reason. Two, i feel like we hardly get to see Jake until recently and if we do it is a quick pass though or he is leaving off somewhere. jmo. My reason for the Sam's baby dying was we saw sam throughout that pregnancy "we saw that baby grow" and we saw all the  turmoil going on about the baby before the baby was born(turmoil: carly/sonny marriage, who is the baby father, people wanting to take custody) then we saw Jason taking on some else responsibility and actually making plans for the baby like he did with michael. ANd the 3 of them (sam, jason and baby) were going to be a family. And finally when the decision was made you thought everything was okay here comes a desperate mother screaming asking for stem cells, sam passed out  baby has to be born. And Jason the first to hold the baby , sonny screaming and crying because another one of his kids didn't make. And sam has no clue yet. To me that is enough to make anyone emotional. but no Sam wakes up and wants her baby and Jason trying to and has to tell Sam the baby is dead. and Sam just does not believe him. (Now that is when i started to cry) poor woman sluggishly walking around the hospital looking for her baby. sad. o yeah the music made it even more sadder.

Jake dying might have been more emotional if spoilers weren't mention. Everyone knew he was going to die. This story was a rushing pass in football it went so quick. No offense  but if i had a kid and they die i am rearranging that hospital. Not to say that JJ SB and RH didn't do a good job.. i just didn't feel it. there was  no omg moment for me. But to add insult to injury Carly comes and ask for a kidney on the same episode and she goes to Jason, which is typical but still(I am Carly fan). you could of waited a couple of hours and let everyone grieve. Bottom line everything in this story was rushed. Everything unfolded in 2 episodes. Why couldn't the Balkan story unfolded like this instead